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Advice Lines Question by biggmamaz
biggmamaz 60 F
9  questions
Do you think he is interested in me? - 5/21/2024

He has been very open with you and has honored your requests by emailing and mailing what you have allowed. Perhaps it's your turn to oblige his wishes, by telephoning him, and minimally leave a m

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biggmamaz 60 F
9  questions
Help me understand - 5/21/2024

He may have been comfortable with only your company. More than likely, he was too shy to be put under your family's and friends' microscope. He did not feel confident that you would protect him f

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biggmamaz 60 F
9  questions
Do long distance relationships work? - 5/21/2024

One of my sons had a long distance relationship via the internet. After a couple of months, he travelled over 500 miles to date the young lady. Soon afterwards, he asked if she could visit him he

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biggmamaz 60 F
9  questions
How i can tell wail that i love him??? - 5/21/2024

You must gain control over yourself, #1. He won't believe you if you are crying. He'll think you just mean to say that you need a hug. Looking him in the eyes, is the best way, when you do tell

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biggmamaz 60 F
9  questions
What Do I Do Now? - 5/21/2024

I do not understand why, if you broke up with him because you feared the depth of it for him...you also say you decided to do that as he once had a relationship, with someone before you. If he is

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biggmamaz 60 F
9  questions
Love sickness: will it be the death of me? - 5/21/2024

Casually and calmly expess your feelings towards him, should the opportunity arise. Just stop and think about how you would feel if someone unexpectedly blurted out things to you. I do not think

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biggmamaz 60 F
9  questions
why - 5/21/2024

How rude to insinuate that two people are just alike. Even clones have different personalities. If you cannot separate the differences between the two, then how in the world will you know which i

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biggmamaz 60 F
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What does Take care of yourself means? - 5/21/2024

Only you are able to say for sure, what he meant. Since he is moving, it probably would take several days for him to arrange to get back on line. It's a shame that he can not phone you, until the

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biggmamaz 60 F
9  questions
HOW YOUNG IS TOO YOUNG TO GET MARRIED? - 5/21/2024

As you say, how much you love a person, a lot of times depends on experience with coping with others. But you're far too young to get married, without the maturity, of being able to, not only cons

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biggmamaz 60 F
9  questions
How to deal with my family? - 5/21/2024

I really think that your parents trust you. It's just that they feel that they let you down, before, because they trusted the other man as well. They evidently did not provide a chaparone for you

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biggmamaz 60 F
9  questions
Still in touch with his ex - 5/21/2024

I'd really like to hear what his current wife has to say about this. If I were you, rather than to commit adultry, I would wait until after he is legally divorced before trying to have any more pr

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biggmamaz 60 F
9  questions
long distance love affair - 5/21/2024

Yes, I honestly think that a long distance relationship will work. But, it would help if each person loved one another. Better still, if the two were ever physically together, at least once...Dre

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biggmamaz 60 F
9  questions
how do you tell a guy you still love him after he's broke nyour heart? - 5/21/2024

Sometimes, it seems, we are allotted a very small amount of time with each other. That is why it is so important to make the most of all the time that we have with anyone. This is good that you e

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biggmamaz 60 F
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This guy confuses me as hell...what is up with him. - 5/21/2024

Sounds like a good old fashioned case of lust. It's only as good as it lasts. That's why it's much better to seek a love, that may not necessisarily be always sex, but will be everlasting...such

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biggmamaz 60 F
9  questions
My parents don't want me to marry a black guy - 5/21/2024

The best way is to be open. But, know this beforehand...parents, and someday you may too, like to think that their/your 's offspring may resemble them/you too and will carry on the family genes.

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biggmamaz 60 F
9  questions
When should you expect your partner to say, "I Love You" - 5/21/2024

Aint't that the truth? Many of us have been conditioned from our homes, media, Holy Temples that the word Love is key. For the first time, I have found myself in a simular situation. So, knowing

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biggmamaz 60 F
9  questions
too social - 5/21/2024

Maybe, there is a cultural problem, here. Maybe, where you come from, an unescorted lady is a free for all...so to speak! But, here, she is unescorted because she is safe from being mistaken as a

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biggmamaz 60 F
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can i go on with my life alone? - 5/21/2024

Yes, you are wrong. He has told you and publicly displayed his repulsion of you. Just as he can not really use "drunkardness" as an excuse, neither may you. Surprisingly, I found myself in the s

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biggmamaz 60 F
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How to get over it ?? - 5/21/2024

I understand. It has taken me over ten years of that confounded realization that I was not the apple of my ex's eye! The reason, I think it has taken so long, is because I kept myself so busy tha

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biggmamaz 60 F
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What do women really think about Sex ? - 5/21/2024

On the one hand, men complain that 'she' won't go the ultimate next step in a relationship. On the other hand, men complain that they want a friend...not to just sex it up all the time! Granted,

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biggmamaz 60 F
9  questions
am i an Alian? - 5/21/2024

Keep things simple. Meet him for dinner or anywhere that may include both you and a friend to accompany you, until you can develope trust with your guy. I hope that things work out between you.

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biggmamaz 60 F
9  questions
why should he do that - 5/21/2024

This may be a test to see if you actually love your new boyfriend. It also gives you the opportunity to behave as your ex did in the past. Two wrongs don't make a right. Don't slip back to an ol

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biggmamaz 60 F
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why do all girls think all guys are interested in is sex??? - 5/21/2024

Maybe because a guy's priority seems to be how to get her into the sack, and then wait and see if a friendship then developes...Welcome to a woman's delema...how to keep the two needs balanced...se

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biggmamaz 60 F
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Life sucks and than you die! - 5/21/2024

True, it is best to go into a RELATIONSHIP without any baggage, so to speak. But everyone's experiences can not be cast aside as easily. They look, every now and then within that 'baggage', so as

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biggmamaz 60 F
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Very confused - 5/21/2024

You already know what to do. While, you are looking to pursue someone else who also wants a hands on unconditional love, maybe your fantasy love will make an appearance. Again, you will know what

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biggmamaz 60 F
9  questions
are there realy any nice guys left - 5/21/2024

With all that you have been through...you may not have given yourself time to be able to deal with the world...let alone a loving relationship. These gents are probably not trying to make you angr

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biggmamaz 60 F
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I need advice on MEN!!! - 5/21/2024

It seems that when you told him that you loved him...he would have given some kind of answer...whether it be that he loves you also and/or he wishes to be a friend, only. If he did not answer at a

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biggmamaz 60 F
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Customer cum Friend - 5/21/2024

I think that only very close friends, would be abiding the rules of ettiquette, if they went dutch, per say, for a party. Your new aquaintences may, indeed find you to be a rude woman for inviting

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biggmamaz 60 F
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IF I SAY....... - 5/21/2024

Oh, how sad! Of course he loves you! He would not have allowed you to have the baby, nor would he have stayed around to help with the baby's upbringing. Maybe you can explain to him, that just a

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biggmamaz 60 F
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How make a relationship work across cultural and language borders - 5/21/2024

Continue to seek information, from books, friends and schools, and let her know that is what you are doing. This will make each of you less anxious to know that every effort is being made to try t

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